What impact does work have on your personality, attitudes, and behaviors toward others, both within and outside work? In this episode of Career Relaunch, Vicky Dain, a former corporate lawyer turned clinical psychologist discusses why she decided to say farewell to working in a fancy law firm to pursue other career interests during her “fertile void” of professional exploration. I also share some thoughts on the how work can radically change you without you even noticing.

Key Career Insights

1. Your job has a way of changing who you are, how you treat others, and who you’re becoming, whether you realize it or not.
2. If you’re making major decisions about your career, opening up a bit of breathing room and headspace for yourself can be incredibly clarifying.
3. When you’re getting so much fulfillment from your work, you may no longer need as many material job perks that once made you happy.

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Resources Mentioned

• Vicky referred to this concept of the fertile void, where stillness and emptiness can actually facilitate the process of planting some seeds for the future. This article in Vitality Magazine describes this concept in more detail.
• We talked about why leaving your job behind can sometimes be difficult. Here are my thoughts on the 5 Main Reasons People Resist Career Changes, featured in Classy Career Girl.
• I wrote about how work molds you more than you realize in this Fast Company Article on What I Learned from my Three Career Changes.

Free Tool: How is work changing who I am?

During this episode’s Mental Fuel segment, I talked about how work can change you more than you realize. To clarify how work is changing you, download your free “Who am I becoming” Worksheet.

About Vicky Dain, Clinical Psychologist in Training