Meg Cowan is a sex and intimacy coach.  After sex became a problem part of her own marriage, Meg and her husband sought help. Through that experience Meg opened up to her friends and found that the need to be talking about this was great. So she set about doing some study and now helps hundreds of people heal from hurts, and progress to loving themselves and having a more fulfilling sex life.   We talk about Meg's journey into this work. The unhelpful advice she was given along the way, especially in the church. We address the negative effects that the evangelical church's purity culture has had on so many, and in what ways Meg looks to address that. And we talk about the big killer in all of this - shame!   Find Meg at her website, megcowan.com, or Instagram ___ Connect with me at downtoearthconversations.com or at Facebook: facebook.com/downtoearth.conversations  Instagram: @downtoearth.conversations Email: downtoearth.conversations@gmail.com